FOSTERING HEROES
Dear Foster carers,
If you have a story, experience, or insight that you would like to share and be featured in the “Fostering Heroes” page, we invite you to reach out to Tanya or your Supervising Social Worker (SSW) for further details:
07548 838 257 (Tanya)
tanya@silverliningfostering.co.uk
π Meet our Foster Carers Zoha and Ali. They kindly shared their insights about Journey of Fostering, Love and Care.
π A heartfelt thank you to Zoha and Ali for their dedication to transforming lives through fostering! π
π€ What made you decide to become foster carers?
“We were always keen to provide care, protection, and love to a child. This encouraged us to foster as we want to support children in a home environment, helping them to overcome their challenges and difficulties.”
π **The best thing about fostering?**
“The best thing about fostering is that we are making a difference in children’s lives, building meaningful relationships with them, and watching a child gain confidence is a source of incredible pride and gratification.”
π€― **Most challenging part?**
“The most challenging part has been the language barrier and being able to fully communicate with our foster child. But we have found using Google Translate makes communication more manageable.”
π£οΈ **Advice for potential foster carers?**
“Fostering can transform a child’s life as well as our own lives. We can help children who come from challenging home circumstances and provide them with positive changes in their life. It is important to know that it takes time to adjust to a new member joining your family, so be understanding and patient while they settle and learn about the house rules.”
π€ **How’s the support from Silver Lining Fostering?**
“Silver Lining Fostering Agency has provided us with good support, training, and a generous allowance. They offer opportunities for foster carers to interact through support groups, face-to-face training, and annual dinners. This gives us an opportunity to meet other foster carers and gain further knowledge about fostering by sharing each other’s experiences.”
π Ayesha’s Compassion Shines Bright π
We want to take a moment to celebrate Ayesha, one of our newly approved single carers, whose dedication and compassion is truly inspiring!
Ayesha has taken on the responsibility of caring for a child with challenging behaviour, who struggles with self-harm when stressed.
This courageous young person comes from a home where he has observed significant domestic abuse against his mother and Ayesha is committed to supporting him to heal and process these experiences.
Despite the challenges, Ayesha’s unwavering support and understanding has become a beacon of hope for her foster child.
Recently, Ayesha sat down with him, creating a safe space where he could express his feelings without judgment or fear.
With patience and empathy, she listened to his fears, worries, and frustrations, offering gentle guidance and unconditional support every step of the way.
Ayesha’s willingness to go above and beyond to support this young person’s emotional well-being is a testament to her remarkable character and dedication to making a positive difference in his life.
Let’s take a moment to applaud Ayesha for her kindness, empathy, and unwavering commitment to providing a nurturing environment where every child feels valued, heard, and supported. πβ¨
Get involved, share your stories, and let’s celebrate the power of fostering to transform lives and create lasting memories. Together, we make a difference! πΒ #MakingADifferenceΒ #SilverLiningFosteringAgencyΒ ππ
π¨βπ§βπ¦Fostering can be challenging but rewarding: π§π§βπ¦±
π©βπ¦βπ¦Meet Asifa Foster carer and her view on fostering challenges: “Diving into fostering can be a bit of a rollercoaster, especially if you’re new to parenting. Suddenly, your time and energy are on a whole new level of demand, especially if you’re used to a different kind of lifestyle.
π©βπ¦βπ¦You’re probably figuring out that your social life might need a remix. Fostering requires adjustments in your own life, and it is important you prioritise self-care, so you do not burn out.
π©βπ¦βπ¦But no need to stress. If you have a supportive independent fostering agency, they’ve got your back. Your social worker and a community of supportive foster carers are like your foster family support hotline. Need help navigating the adjustment period? They’ve got tips. Feeling overwhelmed? They’re there to guide you through the tricky bits and answer all the questions that pop up along the way. It’s like having a foster family for the foster family. π¨βπ§βπ¦
π₯°You’re not alone in this adventure!
Let’s talk about school education. Meet Safia, experienced Foster Carer and her opinion on this: “Some foster kids might not have had the best start when it comes to education. Maybe their biological families didn’t push them to hit the books, and now they’re not exactly thrilled about the whole school routine.
Picture this: they’re not used to showing up every day, sitting still for hours, and doing the homework grind. It’s like a foreign concept to them. And let’s be real, resisting authority can lead to a whole bunch of issues β bad grades, bullying, and maybe even playing hooky.
As a foster parent, you’ve got a key role in turning this ship around. It’s on you to figure out how to handle any education bumps. That’s where we come in with tips on supporting these kids with their studies. We’re all about encouraging them to crack open those books, setting up routines, and giving them the lowdown on navigating the wild world of secondary school. ” πβ¨
To become a Foster Carer, you need to participate in a 12β20-week assessment, which is a learning process to allow you to become more aware of fostering and confident in undertaking this role. This includes checks and references from several sources.
Please meet Aisha, newly approved foster carer and her feedback on the assessment process:
“The assessment includes learning about you, your relationships, health, your lifestyle. They speak to personal references (family and friends) and the checks are to ensure you can provide a safe home for a child.
The assessment is not just about paperwork. They also want to see if you’re capable of taking care of children in a safe and responsible way. Makes sense, right?
When it comes to approving you, there is a written report that captures your suitability to be a foster carer. It’s got to be crystal clear, up-to-date, and based on facts. Your social worker is the one who completes it, and you get to read and agree the contents. Panel read your report, and this informs their decision and recommendationβ.